tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-79555808869062087002024-02-19T00:57:01.331-05:00Thinking Like a Thin PersonAfter 20 years of struggling with weight, can eight months of cognitive therapy teach me to think like a thin person? Will thinking like a thin person actually get me thin?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.comBlogger130125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-74659455820744745672014-07-08T21:34:00.000-04:002014-07-10T15:54:45.147-04:00RE: Grazing (Extra Circular Eating) and TrackingFrom:<span style="line-height: 17.194496154785156px;"> <b>Kara</b></span><br />
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I saw my therapist yesterday to talk about my extra circular eating (my term) - or grazing (her term). She had some great suggestions, and helped pinpoint the reason for grazing.<br />
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Interestingly, we've already identified the two triggers contributing to the morning and evening grazing: too much time between meals (I was eating breakfast more than three hours after I get up in the morning) and I was rebelling against my own self-imposed rule to not eat a snack after dinner (if I tell myself to not eat - I will eat). So funny that I didn't see what now seems obvious.<br />
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- Make and eat my oatmeal within 30 minutes of waking up in the morning.<br />
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- Eat an evening snack - twice a week a treat type snack; the other times something more nutritious like fruit plus protein.<br />
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So far so good today. I had my oatmeal before 6 am while assembling all the lunches, enjoyed a peppermint tea on the train and finished breakfast with cottage cheese at work and NO GRAZING!!!<br />
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We also talked about anxiety, how I am overwhelmed about looking for a new job etc. She suggested an mindfulness app to help with the anxiety and she helped me come up with a plan to designate certain activities each evening:<br />
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- Monday - the bachelorette and blogging (optional)<br />
- Tuesday & Thursday - apply for jobs<br />
- Wednesday & Friday - walking<br />
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I'm going to see her again on July 29...<br />
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Great tips from the therapist - sounds like tips I got too - like eating several times a day and not restricting yourself.</div>
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Did you talk about tracking? The reason I brought up tracking is because you said you wanted to talk about it to her.</div>
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I haven't been diligent with the tracking of late and I am up a couple of pounds so I know it works for me. I want to try to find a balance - maybe track one week a month. Not sure - I am going to speak to the therapist about it. </div>
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From:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> <b>Kara</b></div>
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Sent:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> July-08-14 9:54:38 AM</div>
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Yes, we talked about tracking. My therapist only uses tracking for her patients in the very beginning of the process (write stuff down before eating). She doesn't think that tracking is helpful for me as it triggers way too much anxiety. We're simply fine tuning some of my behaviours.<br />
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She said that I've been a successful intuitive eater for more than three years; eating without a plan and without tracking. People who are naturally thin don't track their food; it is too much work and personally is too much like a diet.<br />
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I know tracking is helping you - I'm so proud of what you have accomplished. Tracking is not a good fit for me. After last night's session, I feel very confident that with work I can permanently minimize grazing with the help of my therapist.<br />
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The interesting thing about intuitive eating is how natural it is. It reminds me of the description of naturally thin people's eating behaviours from the Beck Diet Solution by Judith Beck. Thin people naturally make healthier choices and eat less if they happen to eat heavier foods and/or bigger portions.<br />
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I talked about this with my therapist...I find now that on those heavier days at some point I naturally eat less or better quality food and those few pounds that I went up it goes down again. So when I say that my weight is stable, it goes up and down, but on average it stays the same.<br />
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However, if I'm tracking every calorie/point yada yada, I'm unsure if I would have gotten to this point where I can eat naturally - no plan and no tracking. I trust that in the end that I make choices to maintain my current weight and I'm not gaining.<br />
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At some point in your program will they transition you to a program without tracking? Learn to trust that you will make choices naturally - sometimes you eat more and sometimes you eat less? If this is something you want for yourself - I know you can do it...</div>
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From:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> <b>Jennifer </b></div>
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Sent:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> July-08-14 10:00:31 AM</div>
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Hi Kara,</div>
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Actually the therapist says the same thing to me about tracking. Once I feel like I am at a good weight for me we will discuss not tracking but right now it is working for me. </div>
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You know yourself pretty well and three years is amazing Kara!! I only hope I can keep doing it too...and I think I have the tools to be successful.</div>
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From: <b>Kara</b><br />
Sent: July-08-14 4:14:19 PM<br />
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I've eaten so much less today. No grazing. Mind you this isn't an issue at work, it's more a home problem, but I'm already looking forward to eating some squash for a snack tonight!</div>
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From:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> <b>Jennifer </b></div>
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Sent:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> July-08-14 6:53:25 PM</div>
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YEAH!!! Good for you in seeking help/reassurance.</div>
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From:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> <b>Kara</b></div>
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Sent:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> July-08-14 7:06:34 PM</div>
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Would you be ok if I turned this into a blog post?</div>
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From:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> <b>Jennifer </b></div>
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Sent:<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;"> </span> July-08-14 7:08:49 PM</div>
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Sure - no problem! </div>
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It's raining again...</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-17454068480549434032014-06-19T22:49:00.000-04:002014-06-19T22:49:43.413-04:00Update - A long, cold and snowy winter brings new discoveries!I've been out of touch lately. In fact I've been spotty on updating for quite a while.<br />
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It was an interesting winter and spring - lots of snow, rain and random illnesses among the members of my family. Stomach flu, colds, ear infections, topped of with me catching a bout of pneumonia.<br />
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So weird.<br />
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I'm also looking for a new job as my career is not where I want it to be. The job application process is very time consuming and uncomfortable. I had a round of interviews for the perfect job. The interviews went really well, but I just found out today that the position went to someone else. Sigh.<br />
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I've also made a few interesting discoveries on my thinking like a thin person journey.<br />
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I discovered that transition times are an eating trigger. In addition, I've realized that I go out of my way to avoid the uncomfortable feelings from anxiety. This is food related, but also affects other aspects of my life.<br />
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Plus I am now exploring a new life strategy. Anything that I need to do, but I don't want to do, I am going to learn to like said activity (such as leaving the house after the kids go to bed).<br />
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For the time being, I'm going to write diary type blog posts, so I can keep better track of the day to day happenings.<br />
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In any case, I hope you are all well!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-84747886117446913202014-03-18T20:48:00.000-04:002014-03-18T20:56:36.443-04:00Guest Post - Rethinking Dining Out<i>Jennifer and I met and became fast friends at work fifteen years ago. Jennifer has always loved eating out at restaurants. After talking to her about my experience with cognitive behaviour therapy to change my eating behaviour, she sought out a program with similar goals. </i><br />
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<i>When she started the program she specifically stated that she was not going to change her behaviour when it came to dining out at restaurants. So, I was surprised how quickly her ideas (within months) about restaurant eating changed of her new CBT-based program. </i><br />
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<i>I asked her to write about her change in heart about restaurant eating; her new outlook, her strategy for eating at restaurants. Jennifer's 50 pound loss in 9 months demonstrates that you don't have to choose between all or nothing. You can continue to eat out at restaurants and make healthier choices too.</i><br />
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I swear I was born with a menu in my hand.<br />
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As long as I can remember, I've enjoyed going to restaurants. When I was eight years old I begged my parents to let me order from the adult menu. At that young age, I was worried there wouldn't be enough food in the kiddies’ portion. As I grew up, the ambiance, taste, smell and social aspect of restaurant dining became an important part of my life.<br />
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Throughout our friendship, Kara and I frequently discuss our relationship with food. Last year, I decided to tackle my own eating behaviors and signed up for <a href="http://www.medcan.com/services/weight_loss/">Medcan’s Weight Loss Program</a> featuring a medically managed behavior modification with a cognitive behaviour therapist. <br />
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At Medcan, the results on the scale from weekly weigh-ins are less of a focus. But let’s face it; I sought therapy because I wanted to lose weight for health reasons. When starting this program I vowed that I would not change my restaurant eating routine. After all, it was my social outlet and a favorite hobby. <br />
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Initially, I lost 21 pounds in two months. However, I quickly grew frustrated once I hit a plateau and maintained the same weight for three weeks. I discussed this plateau with Christine, the program nutritionist and she told me two things I’ll never forget:<br />
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<span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space: pre;">"</span>Add 300 calories to a meal eaten at a restaurant to take into account the bigger portions and fat, salt and sugar used to prepare their food. If the food you ordered tastes really good, you know they've added fat."</blockquote>
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"You need to rethink about your approach to eating at restaurants. Drastic changes aren't required - just some minor modifications to start."</blockquote>
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To re-think my approach towards restaurant eating, Christine offered three suggestions to modify my behaviour:<br />
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<b>Reduce the number of times eating out:</b><br />
I admit it – I was eating out three to four times per week. She suggested limiting the number of times to eating out at a restaurant to two times per week.<br />
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But how could I give up this ingrained routine that I love so much? Not only was I giving up restaurant food, but I was also limiting the social aspect of eating out.<br />
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Christine suggested non-food activities such as going for a walk, watching a movie or participating in a sporting event as an alternate. Non-food activities proved to satisfy my need for social interaction. To be honest, I didn't really miss the food.<br />
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I am surprised when I receive little resistance from friends and family when I suggested non-food alternate activities. Instead of dinner out, a friend and I went bowling; to make it more exciting we bet who would win. We were so competitive that we didn’t bother with beer or food!<br />
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<b>Choose the restaurant ahead of time</b><br />
Selecting the restaurants ahead of time has become a go-to strategy. At first, this took some convincing with my friends as we typically take turns selecting the restaurants. It’s no surprise that we naturally choose restaurants serving comfort food such as wings and fries. <br />
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However, after researching venues and successfully suggesting new restaurants for dining, I am the designated restaurant selector in some of my social circles – and I am working on the rest too!<br />
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Now I can control the type and quality of the food that we eat, increasing the chances of eating a lighter and healthier choice. The other advantage is that I can pre-select a lighter entrée so I can order a glass of wine at the restaurant.<br />
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<b>Learn to Love Home Cooked Meals</b><br />
Renewing an interest in home-cooked meals means eating less frequently at restaurants.<br />
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I love seeing the look on my husband’s face when I have prepared a new dish. Last week I prepared an Indian dish consisting of lentils, rice and saffron. Since I am in control of the ingredients, my meal was lower in calories than a restaurant version. <br />
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I fear deprivation. Eating home-cooked meals is a tool to manage deprivation. I can decide to use (or not) the 300 extra calories required for a restaurant meal and enjoy a glass of wine or walk to the local gelato shop.<br />
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My therapist also helped to reframe my perception: I asked why some people can eat as much food as they want, but I can’t. He replied: chances are, those people don't eat this way all the time. He also suggested hanging out with people who had the same thinking with respect to food like Kara. When we meet for lunch, <a href="http://thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/01/getting-together-for-brown-bag-lunch.html">we bring our own food from home</a> and go for a walk too.<br />
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As you can see, I haven’t given up my love of restaurant eating but I have changed the way I think about it. Restaurant eating is no longer the be all end all as it once was for me. I still enjoy dining in restaurants everywhere, but I now enjoy other activities such as cooking, watching movies, bowling and walking.<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-48240060560153264782014-01-31T00:32:00.001-05:002014-01-31T00:32:31.773-05:00Did I stay or did I go running?I knew I was in trouble when hubby went to bed on Saturday night before me. He snored his way through "After Earth." Typically, I'm the one sleeping through the movie and he's the one watching and filling in the plot points the next day. Frankly, I'm shocked that the movie didn't put me to sleep, but then again I was working on a Shutterfly photobook. In any case, once the movie ended, he went to bed.<br />
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Hubby going to bed first is a problem. I have a hard time falling asleep if hubby is already in bed. It disrupts my bedtime routine. I like to fall asleep watching TV. I'm usually out by the time the 30 minute shut off timer on the TV needs to be reset. Of course, he also snores.<br />
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Unfortunately, I wasn't tired so I decided to watch an episode of Homeland. Then another episode. It was almost 2 am by the time I crawled into bed. Of course, once in bed, I had trouble falling asleep. I tossed and turned. Overall it just wasn't a good night of sleep. And I slept through my planned running/walking outing.<br />
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So I need a better plan. I need to make it part of my weekend routine. My weekday routines work like a finely tuned machine, however, the weekends are a bit of the wild west, in terms of eating and exercise. Weekend time is not as structured as weekdays and the amount of planned and last-minute activities varies from weekend to weekend.<br />
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Next post: my friend Jennifer writes about how cognitive behaviour therapy has changed her thoughts on eating out at restaurants!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-28374127529476949882014-01-25T10:55:00.000-05:002014-01-25T10:55:45.987-05:00It's winter! Time to start running again!As I drove my car out of the Oakville Go Train station on Thursday night, I couldn't help but notice a large group of runners (~40 people) decked out in neon green/orange/yellow jackets running drills up and down the hill on Cross Avenue. The temperature was approximately -16 degree temperature (~-30 with the windchill).<br />
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I'm taking this as a sign that it is time to start running again. Or at least walking around the neighbourhood at a nice clip on a regular basis. I'm not much of a runner. It's interesting to note that I gravitate towards low impact sports: swimming, rowing, in-line skating and cycling. I find running jarring on my joints: bam, bam, bam, bam. It is an effort to get into running. However, once I get into it, I understand what all the fuss is about.<br />
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I prefer running outside instead of inside, so the weather is a factor. Personally, I like winter running better than summer running. I like to sweat, but I don't like to be super overheated. I can only take off so much clothing in the summer. However, in the winter, I can always add more.<br />
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Speaking about the weather, we've had a couple of cold snaps this winter here in Southern Ontario this winter and more snow than usual. Years ago, when I trained for a 10K during the winter and I loved running in -30 degree temperatures and marveling at my frozen eyebrows, eyelashes. However the idea of heading out for a run (mostly walking really) after a seven year absence in the same super cold temperatures and blizzard-like conditions is not ideal setting to start running again. My motivation and resolve melts like the snow in spring.<br />
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What I need is a plan. Without a plan, it just won't happen.<br />
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Therefore my short term plan is to head out tomorrow morning, preferably first thing before the bears get out of bed (which is a challenge since the big one gets up before 6 am).<br />
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Will I? Won't I? I have to go with I will, otherwise I won't!<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-13540434672196776072014-01-23T22:41:00.001-05:002014-01-23T22:41:20.323-05:00How to avoid overeating at the company's quarterly update meeting<b>Before the meeting</b><br />
There is a corporate update meeting tonight after work.<br /><br /> <br />To be honest, I'm apprehensive about attending. The meeting extends the workday and to encourage employee attendance, there are serving a finger foods to enjoy. So, this is more than an update meeting, it is a minefield of potential eating triggers.<br /> <br />I'm going up against my three main triggers for overeating: <br />
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<li>go with the flow and eat whatever</li>
<li>eat my small container of cut fruit at the meeting instead of the food that is offered</li>
<li>eat my small container of cut fruit just before heading to the meeting</li>
<li>decide on the number and type of finger foods I can eat and use visualization techniques to practice</li>
<li>some sort of combination of the options above.</li>
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What am I going to do? What would you do?<br /><br /><br /><br /><b> After the meeting</b><br />The meeting is over. My plan for handling the food at town hall worked well. My plan was simple: eat my small container of cut fruit at the meeting and up to five finger foods. I spent a few minutes visualizing and thinking about my plan before heading to the meeting.<br /><br />I'm slightly surprised that I wasn't anxious or feeling deprived. When the food stations opened, I looked to see what was available, and picked one of each of the following items:<br /><br /><ul>
<li>beef wellington ball</li>
<li>coconut shrimp</li>
<li>mushroom tartlet</li>
<li>small macaroon</li>
<li>apple/cinnamon spice tart thing</li>
</ul>
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I enjoyed eating my plate of things, carefully considering the taste of each piece. Once I was done, I was satisfied. I didn't want or need more food. Heck, I'm a little surprised that I didn't eat my fruit. I believe it also helped that I ate two parts (toast with tuna and a bowl of roasted spaghetti squash) of my lunch at 2 pm.<br /><br />Once I arrived home, I ate a bowl of pasta, before heading into the kids' night time routine.<br /><br />Having a plan really worked. I'll make sure I have one in place for all events!<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMNlt_eQWWYij9R6LQbbMyo-OG5IzsFujhFUnaBbEQQVWBHiVe_tvBqG6ULpwkAyee4c51IOg9YcCjHVoERaHJPRfLDIJQ_pITpbjr_KwDhY1TbziUZuNqo3ibbj4egX4R39M-am_meJg/s1600/20140123+corporate+event.jpg"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiMNlt_eQWWYij9R6LQbbMyo-OG5IzsFujhFUnaBbEQQVWBHiVe_tvBqG6ULpwkAyee4c51IOg9YcCjHVoERaHJPRfLDIJQ_pITpbjr_KwDhY1TbziUZuNqo3ibbj4egX4R39M-am_meJg/s1600/20140123+corporate+event.jpg" width="320" /></a><br /><br />
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After years and years of cycling between periods of restricting and overeating, I was either losing weight or gaining weight, there was no in between. My weight was never stable. Until now.<br />
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So, I'm still kind of amazed that I can eat without following a diet, eat like a normal person and NOT gain weight. Eating without a struggle and stable weight for two years is something to celebrate and is massive leap forward in my journey.<br />
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However, do I want to stay at my current weight? Do I want to stay at this weight for the rest of my life? No, I don't. I want to loose more weight. And while I am not ready to write down here how much I weigh, I can confirm that I remain more than 20 pounds heavier than my pre-pregnancy weight.<br />
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But, I have to be careful on how I proceed. I am prepared to sit with the discomfort from the food-related anxiety. I'm prepared to push the boundaries of all the lessons learned in cognitive behaviour therapy to tackle this plateau and getting the numbers on the scale moving down again. I know that I don't need to make huge changes to my current eating routines, but I do have to make changes.<br />
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Fight more of the evening cravings and strive to be more mindful.<br />
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I know I can do it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-3573285109431735852013-10-29T22:49:00.001-04:002013-10-29T22:52:46.304-04:00How to handle a craving - step 3: prepare by visualizing the outcomeLooking for a simple, low-risk method for handling a craving? I suggest you try visualization, a technique I learned and practiced as an athlete.<br />
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The Collins dictionary defines visualization as a technique involving focusing on positive mental images in order to achieve a particular goal. Athletes use visualization to mentally rehearse and maximize their performance in competition.<br />
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As I type this, I can't help but to visualize my competitive synchronized swimming days. Right now I'm walking on the deck, in sync with my duet partner. Instinctively, I raise my chin and roll my shoulders back as the images run through my mind....<br />
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The best thing about visualization is that you can prepare and practice a new behaviour before you need the new behaviour. By mentally rehearsing a new behaviour, your brain develops the "<a href="http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/flourish/200912/seeing-is-believing-the-power-visualization">same mental instructions as actions, and impacts cognitive processes such as motor control, attention, perception, planning and memory</a>."<br />
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That means that you practice handling a craving without the actual craving! On Monday I listened to <a href="http://www.quickanddirtytips.com/productivity/learning/how-to-create-good-habits">Get-It-Done Guy's Quick and Dirty Tips podcast on "How to create good habits</a>." It dawned on me that visualization is a great way to prepare for my next craving; specifically this slight habit of drinking hot chocolate and marshmallows in the evening (recent habit since the weather has cooled). Since listening to the podcast, I'm on my second night of a snack-free evening.<br />
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To prepare for the evening, I visualized a new nighttime routine, one that included hot water instead of hot chocolate and marshmallows. Details included the exact routine such as turning on the kettle, retrieving my klean kanteen travel mug from my bag, pouring the water into my mug and adding three ice cubes to cool the boiling water to the right temperature.<br />
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Most importantly, I visualized drinking and enjoying my drink, feeling the warmth spread through my body. Hot water is both comforting and refreshing!<br />
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When the familiar twinge of hunger hit that usually nudges my feet towards the kitchen, I pushed the thought from my mind as I knew what to do, and I had decided and practiced my actions already. Sure enough, the hot chocolate craving was easily cooled.<br />
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If you haven't used visualization before, here are a few tips:<br />
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<ul>
<li>Breakdown one specific behaviour at a time. Drinking water instead of hot chocolate is specific. Stop all mindless eating is not.</li>
<li>Incorporate all the steps leading up to the new behaviour. Not only did I picture myself drinking hot water, but I also visualized turning on the kettle, getting my cup, pouring the water and finally drinking the drink.</li>
<li>Visualize specific details such as the environment, clothes, people, and senses. Make your images as realistic as possible.</li>
<li>Include your feelings including satisfaction, happiness, confidence and motivation.</li>
</ul>
If you are wary of your next craving, practice the outcome you want by visualizing it!<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><a href="http://www.thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/08/how-to-handle-cravings-pt-1.html">Part1: How to handle a craving</a><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><a href="http://www.thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/08/how-to-handle-craving-step-1-make.html">How to handle a craving - Step 1: Make a decision</a><o:p></o:p></span><br />
<a href="http://thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/10/how-to-handle-craving-part-2-distract.html">How to handle a craving - Step 2: Distract your thoughts and don't over think it </a></div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-91574641150323287842013-10-22T22:35:00.001-04:002013-10-22T22:35:30.132-04:00How to handle a craving - part 2: Distract your thoughts and don't over think it<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">I've
made a decision. I've decided to not eat the ten pack of French Crueller
timbits that I'm craving.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Now,
I just have to stop thinking about those mmmm soft, smothered in icing,
melts-in-your-mouth timbits.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">After
all, what is the point of continuing to think about these damn timbits if I've
already decided to not eat them? Am I a glutton for punishment?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Looking
back, I'm baffled that I thought that the relentless, internal debate triggered
by a food craving was normal:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">"I
want to eat this timbit. No, actually, I wa</span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;">nt to eat twenty of them."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">"I
can't. I shouldn't. I don't need it."<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">"But,
it tastes so good!"<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">"Timbits
are fattening."</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">"I don't care. I'll eat i</span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;">t anyways. Nothing else will satisfy me.</span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;">"</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">My
original resolve to not eat, to not give into the craving was continuously
tested until I gave into the craving. This could take an hour, or two or could
last for a few days or more. It was inevitable that a craving eventually lead
to giving in and eating. It was just a matter of time. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Continuing
to think about the food that you are craving only serves to extend the life of
a craving. Therefore, if you want to
stop a craving, you have to stop thinking about it!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Therefore, once you've made a decision to not eat, the next step is to physically move
away from the food you are craving. Physically separating yourself from the
food you are craving helps to mentally banish the thought of it too.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">If
you are unable to physically move away from the food, move the food so you can
no longer see it. I place frozen food in the downstairs freezer, place cookies
for the kids in the absolutely useless corner kitchen cabinet or behind the
extra ziploc baggies in the hard-to-reach shelf of the pantry.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Once
you've eliminated the visual reminder, turn your attention to something other
than food. Anything to distract your thoughts will work. Prepare a list of ways
to distract your thoughts so you aren't scrambling when a craving hits.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Here
is a list of some of the ways I distract my thoughts:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<li><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;">Refocus
on the task at hand when the craving hit. If I'm in the mall running errands, I
reconsider my list to determine if I missed any additional errands that need to
be done.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;">Google
random questions. What happened to the actor who portrayed Jake from Sixteen
Candles? What happened in the Lost finale?</span></li>
<li><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;">Go
for a walk with a colleague to discuss non-food related topics.</span><span style="font-family: 'Century Gothic', sans-serif;"> </span></li>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Step
2 is simple, distract your thoughts. But, in order for this to work you need to
allow your brain to think about something else and forget about the food you
are craving. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><br /></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">Don't
over think it! Don't hold onto your craving – just let it go!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";">How
do you distract your thoughts away from food?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Century Gothic","sans-serif";"><a href="http://www.thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/08/how-to-handle-cravings-pt-1.html">Part1: How to handle a craving </a><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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craving - Step 3: Reflect and prepare for the next craving</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-47409159211268289992013-08-08T23:27:00.001-04:002013-08-08T23:27:34.076-04:00How to handle a craving - step 1: make a decisionReprogramming my thoughts with cognitive behaviour therapy has significantly decreased the number of cravings I experience on a daily basis.<br />
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Ironically, the fact that I don't experience as many cravings means I have less opportunity to practice handling cravings during those spontaneous food moments during the day.<br />
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Such as when the manager asks if I'm interested in a piece of leftover black forest cake from the department potluck. OR when I grab an extra arrowroot cookie for the kids and grab a few for myself (same goes for chocolate chips from the pantry). OR when you are camping and there are enough snacks for a five families instead of two.<br />
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I'm not really thinking about what I'm doing - it's completely mindless eating. What I've noticed about mindless eating is that I don't make a decision to eat or not - I just eat. Eating just seems to happen.<br />
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So the first step to handle a craving is to make a decision - am I going to eat or not?<br />
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By making a decision on whether or not to eat allows me to slow down and consider whether or not I want to eat. And come up with a plan based on my decision to eat or not.<br />
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This is not as easy as it sounds. Sometimes I consciously avoid making a decision. Sometimes I completely forget to make a decision. It's difficult to overwrite a 30 year old behaviour with a new behaviour.<br />
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My strategy to make a decision first is to write down the food and amount of food that I'm going to eat before I eat. By writing it down in my Evernote food book, I'm forced to think about my decision:<br />
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- Do I really want to eat this food? Why? <br />
- If I decide to eat this food, how much am I going to eat?<br />
- If I decide to not eat, what do I need to do to ensure that happens?<br />
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Once I make a decision (and write it down in my notebook) I live with the decision, I don't feel guilty if I decide to eat and I don't obsess about the food I'm not eating.<br />
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Here are a couple of things to consider:<br />
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- When I'm really struggling with a craving, I make a series of short-term decisions. For example, I can decide to not eat a piece of cake, but if I still want to eat the cake in five minutes, I can make another decision to eat (or not). Each time I decide to delay eating the cake, I am closer to riding out the craving.<br />
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- Establishing a new behaviour takes time and practice. If you don't make a decision when a craving hits, don't be discouraged, figure out if you can do anything different the next time and try again. <br />
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First post:<a href="http://www.thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/08/how-to-handle-cravings-pt-1.html"> How to handle cravings - pt. 1</a><br />
Next post: How to handle cravings - distract and don't over think itAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-57701203303027634472013-08-07T23:04:00.002-04:002013-08-07T23:10:30.949-04:00How to Handle Cravings - pt. 1Do you <a href="http://thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2011/12/thinking-about-food-all-time.html">think about food all the time</a>? Do you spend an abnormal amount of time battling cravings? Or does giving in to a craving seem like an forgone conclusion?<br />
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I began obsessing about food when I was a kid. Mostly, I fretted about the food I wasn't allowed to eat. I fretted about the food I had to eat. I remember how my friend Mandy would eat her smarties one at a time, and I just wanted to eat the freakin' smarties by the mouthful!<br />
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For thirty more years I continued to obsess about food, with the added weight loss/weight gain worries. By the time I started cognitive behaviour therapy in 2010, I experience food cravings all day; as long as I was awake, I wanted to eat something.<br />
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Having gone through therapy, I now understand my cravings. I can tell you that the best way to battle a craving is to just not have it in the first place. And to eliminate cravings all together you have to change how you think about food - you have to change how you think about everything.<br />
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I resolved the bulk of my cravings by working with my therapist by reprogramming my thoughts. I no longer <a href="http://thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/search?q=the+problem+with+bad+foods">think of food as good and bad</a>. It's just food. <a href="http://thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2011/06/eat-whatever-you-want.html">I don't restrict the amount or kinds of foods that I eat.</a> After all - if I'm told I can't eat chocolate - I'm going to want to eat chocolate. If I'm told I can only have one serving of rice, I will want two servings.<br />
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The remainder of my cravings are truly spontaneous, typically a social situation. It's taken a while to figure out a good plan for these cravings, but I've got a plan that works, but I am still practicing.<br />
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For the next few posts, I'm going to write about what I've learned about cravings and provide you with some ideas on how to handle your own cravings.<br />
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How do you handle cravings?<br />
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Next post: How to handle cravings - make a decision to eat or not<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-32472995019839164692013-07-11T22:36:00.003-04:002013-07-11T22:36:55.309-04:00Me, the big bear and the Go Diego Go! bike<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">"How about you and I go for a walk tomorrow morning? I walk and you ride."</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">A big smile breaks across big bear's face. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">Hubby and I have been struggling since big bear started getting up early - anywhere from 2 am to 5 am, eager to start the day. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">"I want to play Mommy!"</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">"Good grief big bear, please go back to bed!"</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">With bloodshot eyes and </span><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20.796875px;">sizable</span><span style="font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;"> pillows under my eyes, I stumbled to Chapters Indigo at lunch to buy the OK to Wake clock that glows green at the agreed time when the big bear can get out of bed. Thankfully it works - mostly. Hubby and I are lucky if we can get the big bear to sleep in until 6:30 am; typically he is ready to go at 5:30 no matter what time he goes to bed.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">Then last weekend I had an epiphany. Since big bear is ready to move at an early hour, why the heck don't we go do something together?</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">Most friends can't imagine working out in the morning. However, I feel the same way about working out in the evening. </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20.796875px;"> </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15px; line-height: 20.796875px;">I just don't have the drive to do it at the end of a long, busy day.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px; line-height: 20.796875px;">Once the little bears arrived, morning workouts no longer fit into the morning schedule. </span></span><span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">I currently get out of bed at 5:15 on a weekday and I'm physically unable to get up any earlier. So since the arrival of the bears, I'm stuck exercising after work, after family time, and after the kids go to bed. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">So, on Sunday morning my big bear quietly tip-toed to my bedside and asked if we were going for a walk. I nodded slowly and moved to an upright position. I grabbed my clothes laid out the night before; we left my sleeping hubby and little bear.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">We both changed from our pajamas to our clothes. I grabbed a snack, water and </span><span style="font-size: 15.454545021057129px; line-height: 20.795454025268555px;">Kleenex</span><span style="font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;"> and headed outside to put our shoes on. I quietly fetched his helmet and bike from the garage and off we went.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">We talked as we explored the streets and houses of the less explored parts of our neighbourhood. He marveled at Toronto's skyline and I showed him the Niagara escarpment. We stopped by a playground he hadn't seen before.</span></span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">I smiled thinking at how great it felt to be outside moving in the morning while so many people are sleeping. It was awesome to be sharing this moment with my son. And I couldn't believe I hadn't thought of this earlier!</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">For our first outing, we walked, talked and cycled for 2 hours and another </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">hour the following day. Last Sunday we overdid it with a three hour jaunt, but we discovered a few shortcuts and watched the fisherman fishing at the Oakville </span><span style="color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif; line-height: 20.798612594604492px;">harbor.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #444444; font-family: Calibri, sans-serif;"><span style="font-size: 15.199999809265137px; line-height: 20.799999237060547px;">Ah, life is good. I'm exercising in the morning again and now I have company! </span></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-4442608178953047332013-07-03T22:46:00.001-04:002013-07-03T22:46:16.405-04:00Exhaustion caused by potential iron deficiency?After three months of complete exhaustion, I feel like I've finally woken up out of a fog.<br />
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I had trouble getting up in the morning; I was unable to stay awake on the train to work. I dragged my behind through the workday and I could barely keep my eyes open on the train back home.</div>
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I perked up slightly at dinner with hubby and the bears, but my energy level quickly plummeted during story time. On more than one occasion I nodded off in the chair before the little bear fell asleep in his bed.</div>
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Swimming ended in June for the summer, but I missed practices more than I went for the final two months. I had absolutely no energy for anything let alone swimming late at night only to get to bed even later which only compounded the lack of energy I felt.</div>
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Last week I received a clear sign from body. My body said, "EAT SOMETHING ELSE." So, that day I decided to forgo my lunch of salad, chick peas, fruit and other stuff for a sandwich and salad from Fast Fresh Foods. </div>
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After lunch, I was telling my friend about this lack of energy and struggle to get anything done. I noted that I was feeling more awake - more energetic - after eating a sandwich instead of the lunch instead of my usual fare from home. That's when she suggested a possible iron deficiency. </div>
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I thought back to the time when I changed my recent weekday food routine, substituting a meat-based protein for a plant-based protein. I'm fairly certain that the exhaustion came at some point after the food change-up. </div>
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And while I can't say for sure that an iron deficiency is or is not the reason for the lack of energy, I've come to realize that I need to better educate myself on plant-based proteins, I've learned that the food I decide to eat can have a direct impact on my energy level and the importance of eating a variety of foods. Plus I decided to add a once a day multi-vitamin to my eating regimen for good measure.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-16046702341250217572013-05-11T07:06:00.002-04:002013-05-11T07:11:40.261-04:00Catching Up yet againOh me oh my.<br />
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It's been busy here. So busy that until a few minutes ago, I didn't even have a chance to login to blogger. I haven't been swimming and a true sign of a hectic schedule, I bought my lunch a few times over the last couple of weeks.<br />
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My husband was away for a week visiting his parents in Newfoundland. Before he left I pictured quiet evenings of blogging. In reality I was too pooped from cleaning up and getting ready the next day. There was very little time and I had no energy to do anything other than go to bed.<br />
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I've also gained a couple of pounds (my jeans are slightly tighter) since we ate more prepackaged dinners. My parents helped me by picking up the bears after school/daycare. We ate dinner at their house when I picked them up after work.<br />
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Plus, I've been interviewing for two new jobs that has meant time buying interview clothes, preparing, and even completing a test/assignment for the more promising opportunity.<br />
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My interest is turning back to the less healthy food, which is a signal that I need to change my food routines. Frankly, there isn't enough time to figure that out right now, but I should have more time next week. Currently my attention is focused on baby bear's birthday party today. I can hardly believe my baby bear is three now.<br />
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That reminds me, the next big event is my parents' 50th wedding anniversary party next month.<br />
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Anyhow, these are challenges we all face and all that any of us can do is to muddle through the best we can.<br />
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I'm looking forward to getting back in the pool....<br />
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How are you doing?<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-67625202145135973782013-04-22T00:09:00.000-04:002013-04-22T00:09:08.933-04:00Catching up - how are you doing?Hey, how are you?<br />
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It's been a while.<br />
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Stuff has been going on.<br />
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My laptop crashed permanently. The motherboard burned out. Who knew that laptops only last 3 to 4 years? I'm sure many people knew that, but I didn't. Interesting to note that the cost to replace a fried motherboard pretty much buys a new computer. So I bought a new computer, with a bigger monitor (yay!). It's taking time getting used to a new keyboard and Windows 8 (what the heck happened to the Start button?).<br />
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There has been news; good and not-so-good. I was shocked by the horrific bombing in Boston and tragic fertilizer plant explosion in West, Texas. My heart go out to the family and friends touched by these events. However, I primarily think of my wonderful mother-in-law and father-in-law who are experiencing their own health crisis far away in Newfoundland; I think of you always and I am glad that your son, my DH will be coming home to be with you soon.<br />
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Eating has been going well. Tackling my issue with social eating has led down an interesting road. I'm annoyed by all the junk food everywhere. <a href="http://www.weightymatters.ca/">Yoni Freedhoff</a> recently called it <a href="http://health.usnews.com/health-news/blogs/eat-run/2013/03/28/second-hand-junk-food">second hand junk food</a>. I'm formulating a plan to make it easier for people at my workplace to not eat food. I'm excited, but I know my suggestion is controversial.<br />
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I've been reading <a href="http://www.chapters.indigo.ca/books/Salt-Sugar-Fat/9780771057083-item.html?s_campaign=goo-BooksByTitle&gclid=CPm44f2a3bYCFdNzMgodpjQAuA">Michael Moss' Salt, Sugar, Fat</a>. I'm adding a new eating trigger to list of triggers. The newly discovered trigger is processed food. Why? Because processed food tastes too good. It is engineered by chemists in a lab, supported by research to guarantee that we eat too much, buy more and induce cravings.<br />
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It is time to challenge the traditional ideas on why we we overeat.<br />
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I've also decided to push my comfort zone when it comes to this blog. I intend to write more controversial posts or write in a more controversial voice. I've changed how I think about food, dieting and weight loss; now I want everyone else to change too.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-15248521573438594102013-03-19T23:00:00.000-04:002013-03-19T23:00:45.437-04:00Feeling judged for eating grapefruitToday it became apparent that my truly, very lovely new cube neighbour and I share a different set of boundaries.<br />
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She moved in to the cube beside mine the week of Valentine's Day. Her husband sent a massive basket of chocolate and she continually attempted to offer me chocolate with an <a href="http://thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/02/dealing-with-food-pushers-insight-from.html">imaginative sales pitch including referring to said chocolate as "healthy." </a><br />
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After a day of continually saying "no thanks" she accepted that I won't eat her chocolate. However, today she went to the other end of the spectrum and questioned my decision to eat a late afternoon snack - a grapefruit.<br />
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"I'll be back, I'm just going to cut up my grapefruit." I said.<br />
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"I can't eat a big fruit like that," she replied.<br />
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I nod and offer an uncomfortable smile. I'm unsure what to say to this. Naturally, I can't help but to think that she is inferring that I'm eating too much; but perhaps I'm just too sensitive. I head to the kitchen to cut up my grapefruit.<br />
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Ten minutes later, I return to my desk. Before I'm finished eating my grapefruit she casually asks if I'm leaving soon. It's 4:55. My workday ends at 5 pm:<br />
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"Yes I am leaving soon."<br />
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"Then why are you eating when you will be home for dinner soon?" she replies.<br />
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Slightly miffed I say, "So I don't bonk on the commute home."<br />
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I must admit that I deleted a big long paragraph explaining why I had a snack before heading out on my hour-long commute home. But, it doesn't matter. It is none of her business why I eat food (or not). I can eat grapefruit an hour before dinner (or any food, in any amount, for any amount of time, before or after a meal because it is my decision).<br />
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Isn't it funny how some people aggressively push food one day and then pass judgement the next? How those people expect us to eat the food they offer to be polite yet be a target for judgement anytime we decide to eat food, especially if said food or timing appears inappropriate?<br />
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Yes, I'm feeling a bit cynical (and sensitive) today. Hope you had a good one!Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-37116596567990787692013-03-14T23:27:00.001-04:002013-03-14T23:27:15.431-04:00No need to admit that you are serving a WW recipe<blockquote class="tr_bq">
I have a couple of social occasions coming up (one that I'm going to host) and plan on doing WW friendly recipes. We'll see how it goes, I feel a little anxious about it, I don't know why... why wouldn't anyone want to be served something healthier I think I'll hold off on tell them until after the meal.</blockquote>
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Hi Cheryl!<br />
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You are anxious about serving WW friendly meals at dinner parties; I can completely understand those feelings. I've only recently started to rethink the type of food I serve to friends and family.<br />
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I think you are anxious because there is a perception out there that healthy food is not tasty food and our society on the whole is obsessed with taste. No one wants to serve food that doesn't taste great to their guests. But, healthy food does taste good, perhaps in a different way from a full fat recipe.<br />
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In any case, for your upcoming social events, serve food that works for you. You don't need to consult your guests before the meal and you don't need to admit (or apologize) for anything after the meal. After all, your guests are important so wouldn't you rather contribute to their good health instead of detract from it?<br />
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You may actually find that some (or perhaps all) of your guests may be thankful and relieved to be eating lighter and healthier food.<br />
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Cheryl is a newbie blogger, and we have been friends for almost 20 years now (where did the time go??). We were on the same rowing crew gliding up and down the credit river. Check out her blog <a href="http://cheringchange.blogspot.ca/">Chering Change</a>.<br />
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If you have any suggestions for Cheryl, please add a comment below.<br />
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Also, check out this<a href="http://www.cbc.ca/thecurrent/episode/2013/03/07/why-salt-sugar-and-fat-are-the-pillars-of-the-processed-food-industry/"> interview</a> with journalist Micheal Moss about his new book Salt, Sugar, Fat about how the food industry got us hooked on processed food. Fascinating!<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-34208943211920203022013-03-10T22:26:00.000-04:002013-03-10T22:26:08.988-04:00Why I don't want to serve cheese as an appetizerI opened the compartment of the refrigerator that holds the deli meat, cheese and other bits of food. There, I saw it. I groaned and rolled my eyes. I spied a large brie. Hubby must have bought it as an appetizer for our friends that were coming for dinner that night.<br />
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Had I not told him that I no longer want to serve cheese as an appetizer?<br />
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I've been tackling the issue of social eating for the last six months or so; coming up with various tactics. I've come to the conclusion that one of the best ways to combat social eating is to serve food that works for me. While serving (or bringing food) that works for me is not always possible, I am in complete control of the menu when we're hosting the dinner party.<br />
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While I love cheese, ultimately cheese is not a good choice; it's too easy to overeat and if I do serve cheese, there is a chance that I'll be too full to eat dinner.<br />
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So, I decided to no longer serve cheese (or bring cheese) as a dinner party appetizer. What is the point of serving food that will increase the possibility for overeating? There is a wide variety of food choices out there that I can serve and I can easily choose food that is tasty and a healthy choice that works for me.<br />
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I know this seems like a very simple solution. But until recently, I either didn't think of it or I didn't want to impose my healthy choices on guests or on some level I wanted a break from the healthy food that I eat day in and day out. My guess is that the answer is some sort of combination of the three that changed depending on the occasion. <br />
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In any case, a week after the dinner party, the brie is still in the fridge. We're saving it for a larger dinner party when there are more than four adults to enjoy it.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-90094584157435517952013-03-07T00:43:00.000-05:002013-03-07T00:43:19.778-05:00Eat food not productsI had an a-ha moment last year as I walked around the concourse of my office building. I realized that the bulk of the food sold in restaurants, fast food shops and grocery stores is junk food. More importantly, I stopped thinking of prepared meals, fast food or restaurant food as a valid eating option. Some sort of switch flipped; I lost interest in buying food and preferred to eat food prepared at home.<br />
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I realized that it is too easy to overeat food that is prepared by food manufacturers and restaurants.<br />
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(In general, I'm referring to manufactured meals - meals made by someone else and/or somewhere else. Of course this includes snack foods and "healthy" fast food places that serve enormous salads.)<br />
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If you think about it, food manufacturers have teams dedicated to creating convenient meals that are so tasty that you will like it enough to buy again and again. They test, use focus groups as guidance to perfect a product that will appeal to the the most consumers. This team also works to overcome obstacles such as an ingredient list constrained by a budget and projected pricing and a manufacturing date that is weeks/months prior to the consumption date.<br />
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Plus, let's not forget that the food business is a competitive market. Luckily, the food marketers work on a plan to develop product awareness so you will remember to buy their frozen lazagna at the grocery store and again the following week. If the product happens to be low-fat and doesn't taste all that great - the food marketers will market the health benefits and let the health halo do the rest.<br />
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In the case of fast food and restaurants, it's a bit of a double whammy - there is the taste thing and the huge serving size thing. Servings are massive, even the children's meals are too big and in the wrong proportions for healthy eating (ie. vegetables rarely take up half the plate). I'm even wary of the healthy fast food places that sell big salads heaping with various prepared toppings with mayonnaise and cheese.<br />
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Of course, some prepared meals are healthier choices than others. On the rare occasion that I buy my lunch (once every couple of months), my first choice is a place where I can get a gourmet salad and a sandwich.<br />
And while I realize that it is one of the healthier choices, the sandwich is big, and I'm certain the salad dressing in full fat.<br />
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In my eyes, food made in factories, fast food/restaurants meals are treated like chocolate bars and should only be eaten occasionally.<br />
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If you are interested in controlling your eating, control what you eat by making the food you eat.<br />
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Eat food and be wary of eating products. <br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-60950854946684548612013-02-19T22:32:00.001-05:002013-02-19T22:32:13.870-05:00Dealing with food pushers - insight from a thin personA former manager is one of those naturally thin people who does not have to work at staying thin. She has a naturally low appetite. I swear she can nurse a muffin all day long. One day when we were chatting after a meeting, she told me about a particular pair of pants that must go in the dryer before wearing as the material needs to be shrunk in order for it to fit. I replied with a laugh and told her that is not a problem that I've experienced.<br />
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During a more recent conversation we talked about the massive amount of food at our new workplace (the company we worked for was bought and merged with another financial services company). I was shocked by all the food at work: pizza, burrito day, breakfast day, ice cream, cake, cupcakes, continental breakfast, popcorn, candy. Some brought in by colleagues, but most of it provided by management as a way to motivate and thank employees. </div>
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So my naturally thin manager shares this interesting tidbit of information: if you say no to offers for food, eventually food pushers will get the message and stop offering food. <br />
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And she is right. Now that I've said no thank you enough times, no one tries to push food on me and I'm also finding it easier to say no thank you when the offer for food comes up.</div>
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I kept this in mind when a group of new employees started last week and a truly very lovely lady offered (enthusiastically) a basket of valentine's day chocolate to her neighbouring colleagues (including me).</div>
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"Please, have some chocolate, help me to not get fat by eating all this chocolate!" she said. "Look, have some of this chocolate, this chocolate is healthy!" </div>
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Nice. She doesn't want to get fat with chocolate, but it's ok to push chocolate onto colleagues and make them fat?</div>
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I wasn't interested in her chocolate; I kept my steely resolve with a cheery, "no thank you" and "perhaps later, but I don't want any right now thanks." She got the picture that I just wasn't interested and moved on to more interested colleagues.</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-51214542846800085562013-02-03T01:17:00.000-05:002013-02-03T01:17:11.323-05:00Choosing fresh fruit instead of chocolate cakeChocolate cake with a thick layer of icing piped along the edges; apple crisp with a lovely gooey filling topped with a crisp oatmeal and brown sugar topping; mint chip ice cream with chocolate syrup and sprinkles. Mmmm, so sweet, so good.<br />
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If I'm supplying a dessert for a dinner party, I can guarantee that I will bring something along the lines of cake, crisp/pie or ice cream. After all, who doesn't love to eat tasty baked foods or cold and creamy ice cream. Convenient too, it's so easy to pick up dessert, the bakery department and the freezer is always stocked at the grocery store.<br />
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However, something changed this week; I decided to do something different. I decided that any occasion when I'm tasked to bringing food, I'm going to bring food that works for me; I'm going to bring healthy food.<br />
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Tonight we went to my brother and sister-in-law's house for dinner. The plans came together quickly, so SIL suggested ordering pizza; I offered to supply the rest.<br />
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There wasn't going to be much time before dinner for appetizers, so I bought a small container of Japanese Rice Crackers. To help fill up my stomach with food other than pizza, I made a salad. For dessert, I put together a platter of fresh fruit (orange slices, grapes and strawberries) with vanilla flavoured Greek yogurt for dipping. To break the fruit platter ice, I brought frozen cookie dough that happened to be in our freezer.<br />
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I know many of us are uncomfortable with the idea of serving healthy "diet" food to friends and family.Why is that? Why do we put ourselves in the position of deciding between sabotaging our own effort or missing out? Why do we assume that no one else would want to eat a healthier dessert? Why do we assume that fresh fruit won't taste good enough?<br />
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I don't have all the answers, but this is what I know: I don't want to sabotage my eating or miss out. No longer will I assume that a lighter, fresher option will not be appreciated. And I know that fresh fruit with Greek yogurt will be devoured just a quickly as an ice cream sundae and I figured, if dinner guests don't want to eat the fruit - they can always eat a fresh baked cookie.<br />
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How about you? Do you serve "healthy food" to your dinner party guests?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-26708433863518306062013-01-29T22:01:00.000-05:002013-01-29T22:01:40.223-05:00Getting together for a brown bag lunch<br />
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Kara: Hey Jen, do you want to get together for lunch?<br /><br />Jen: Sure! When? Where?<br /><br />Kara: My schedule is wide open, let me know what works for you.<br /><br />Jen: This week is full, but I can get together next week.<br /><br />Kara: Works for me! Do you want to do a brown bag lunch or go somewhere?<br /><br />Jen: Brown bag is good.<br /><br />Kara: Excellent!</blockquote>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">On Friday, I'm meeting my friend Jen for lunch. Literally. She is bringing her lunch, and I will bring mine. It's a win-win situation - we get together to catch up on our busy lives and we eat the food the food that we want to eat.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I always had mixed emotions about going out for lunch. I love going out for lunch, but I saw it as a drain on my wallet and invariably derailed healthy eating for the day. Of course, restaurant food is tasty - but is it worth it?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">After I returned to work after mat leave (and 9 months of cognitive therapy), I decided to put it out there - hey girls, instead of going out for lunch at a restaurant, why don't we meet in the food court and bring our lunch?</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">They agreed. We came. We chatted. And we ate our own food.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">In the last two years of getting together with my friends for lunch, I can only think of one occasion that we actually went to a restauran<span style="color: #2a2a2a;">t. </span> </span><span style="font-family: 'Segoe UI', Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, sans-serif; font-size: 13px;"> </span></div>
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The most amusing thing that I discovered since I started eating salad at lunch is that my cat loves lettuce. The little fur ball comes running whenever he hears the salad spinner whirling as it separates water from the leafy vegetable. See, here he is below, eating lettuce. I swear he can't seem to get enough.</blockquote>
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Same goes for me. In 2012, I processed at least 104 heads of lettuce in my salad spinner. That's a minimum of two per week that I buy, wash and dry. Typically I pick up green leaf lettuce or red leaf lettuce. I also buy a package of romaine hearts as a back up (it seems to keep fairly well) for those times that I run out of lettuce. If I had a bigger kitchen, I'd seriously consider buying <a href="http://the%20funniest%20thing%20i%20discovered%20since%20i%20started%20eating%20a%20salad%20at%20lunchtime%20is%20that%20my%20cat%20loves%20lettuce.%20the%20little%20fur%20ball%20comes%20running%20whenever%20he%20hears%20the%20salad%20spinner%20whirling%20lettuce%20in%20its%20bowl%20dispensing%20water%20from%20the%20leafy%20vegetable.%20see%2C%20here%20he%20is%20below%2C%20eating%20lettuce.%20i%20swear%20he%20can%27t%20seem%20to%20get%20enough../">this</a> salad spinner; from the amazon product reviews, it is primarily used by farmers.<br />
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When I began eating salad at lunch, I bought the pre-washed lettuce in a bag or box. After a few months, I noticed that I spent too much time separating the good from the spoiled lettuce. It was such a waste of time and money. I notice that pre-washed lettuce isn't really convenient. So at that point I decided to wash, spin and store my own lettuce.<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">The replacement salad spinner - wow, I need to moisturize!</td></tr>
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The picture above is the salad spinner that replaced my first <a href="http://thinkinglikeathinperson.blogspot.ca/2013/01/lessons-learned-from-holiday-eating.html">salad spinner that I melted </a>the week before Christmas. The whole melting of the salad spinner was a deja vu moment. Days before the incident, I was asked myself what I would do if something happened to this faithful kitchen gadget. Next thing I know its got a big rounded dent in it.<br />
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In any case, the next time I melt or otherwise break my salad spinner, I'll limit the replacement search to a couple of days instead of a couple of weeks. I just can't go on without one!<br />
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How about you? Do you use a salad spinner or do you dry your lettuce some other way or do you buy pre-washed lettuce? Have you broken a favorite kitchen gadget lately?<br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-81464113594147824222013-01-18T00:03:00.000-05:002013-01-18T00:03:02.507-05:00Lessons learned from holiday eating<br />
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Wow - I can hardly believe that it has been (or perhaps more?) a month since my last blog post. I had planned writing through the Christmas holidays and New Year's, but I always seem to forget how busy it is at this time of year and how much time it takes to get ready. I was exhausted (still am) and I needed to take a break.<br /><br />Phew.<br /><br />Happy belated 2013! Anyone else going through baked good withdrawal like I am?<br /><br />Despite best intentions, holiday eating did not go exactly as planned. I forgot and/or severely underestimated the sheer amount of food that accompanies Christmas/New Year's and all the days before, after and in between. The meals, the gifts of food, food from school, food from colleagues, food from dinner guests, food from neighbors, food from Santa. Food, food, everywhere food!<br /><br />And busy. Shopping, wrapping, cleaning, Christmas cards, cooking and preparing took so much time and energy. </div>
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Fortunately, I had the week before Christmas off from work, so I assumed there was time to make my healthy lunches and snacks each day. In reality, I was too busy and too tired and too hungry to wash lettuce, assemble salads and other food preparations that I should have done on the weekend. So I ate whatever food was readily available, be it a sandwich, Kraft dinner and um, frozen cookie dough.</div>
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In any case, what happened happened; I have no regrets, but there are a few post-holiday lessons learned:</div>
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<li>When the neighbors bring a big tin of European chocolate cookies to the house, talk to hubby about not opening said box.</li>
<li>If I melt the salad spinner while cooking Kraft Dinner for the little bear again, just go buy a new one. Interestingly, salad spinners are considered a seasonal product and are not widely available (let alone on sale) in stores.</li>
<li>It was a relief to decide to not bake Christmas goodies; I didn't miss it, even though baking is one of my favorite holiday traditions.</li>
<li>It worked well to exclude cheese as an appetizer.</li>
<li>Frozen cookie dough is handy, but when I unexpectedly end up with a bunch of boxes of frozen cookie dough from big bear's school; keep said boxes restricted to the downstairs freezer.</li>
<li>Whether I'm at work or at home, prepare lunch and snacks so healthy choices are readily available.</li>
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Thankfully, I'm back at the pool and my taste buds and are getting back to normal. Life is getting back to normal. I can spin lettuce. It's all good.</div>
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What about you? Did you learn anything about your holiday eating? Did you decide to challenge any Christmas traditions?</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07849140037963687553noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7955580886906208700.post-78846767758404605662012-12-11T00:57:00.001-05:002012-12-11T00:57:29.319-05:00Choosing food that I like over food that I loveOn Friday, I decided to eat food that I like over food that I love. <div>
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The first Friday of every month I attend a team meeting. The meeting is part update and part team-building session. In this meeting, we celebrate team members' birthdays for the upcoming month. Of course, birthdays are celebrated with cake; or like this month,<a href="http://www.healthzone.ca/health/dietfitness/thedish/article/1172755--chocolate-cupcake-from-prairie-girl-bakery-has-almost-700-calories-and-30-grams-of-fat"> Prairie Girl cupcakes</a>.</div>
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I've been struggling with the baked good aspect of this meeting. To have or not to have. I don't really want to have, but I continue to accept the slice of cake/cookie or cupcake. So far the only sure fire way of avoiding these fun, empty calories is by taking a vacation day. But, that isn't practical solution and I'm running out of vacation days.</div>
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Last week I discussed this monthly dilemma with my therapist. Again, we talked about the idea of eating foods that I like rather than foods that I love. She acknowledged that many patients have a hard time with the idea of choosing food that they like over food that they love. After all, if you decide to eat something, you want it to be worth it!</div>
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For example, I love the taste of baked goods; cake and cupcakes but I like the taste of my typical afternoon snack - fruit-pureed yogurt topped with bran buds. From our discussion of love vs. like came the solution to the birthday cake dilemma: take my afternoon snack to the meeting.</div>
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So simple, but it worked. I brought my yogurt to the meeting and ate it mindfully as my colleagues ate their cupcakes. I didn't feel like I was missing out by choosing the yogurt I like to eat over my love of baked goods.</div>
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